#Let Me Live
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Had you ever
noticed why our Asian youths are lagging behind then most of them in the West?
It’s nevertheless
to say that our children are more efficient, brilliant and strong team player
not because we train them properly but they raise up in a society full of
extreme challenges. Yet why they are standing behind? What make them hesitate
to fly?
Well, the
answer might poke you hard but its true that our parents play the ultimate roll
in this case.
Imagine two
generator, first one can run only in proper room temperature, 100% pure fuel,
zero over-load and can generate 10k watts. Any exception and the machine will
stop working. Second is usable in any conditions weather its raining,
flooding, over-loaded, adulterated fuel or extreme chaotic situation and yet it
produces same energy. But at the time of evaluation the first machine gets the
gold medal.
Our youths
are none other then the second that can perform in any bizarre weather. Its us
who cant command them properly. Often they never-know what to do before they
are 25. Frustration gathers around. I saw people holding a very high
professional degree but end up working 9 to 5 as a loyal employee and cry out “I
didn’t expect this” though they never know what they expected. Their only aim is
to become first in the class or having a good cgpa. Its not unfair to wish so
but seriously? Is it close enough to be a passion? How can you expect
generating power without giving proper instructions? Come on, don’t be a lame.
Ask a kid
what he wants to be. 95% will answer doctor or engineer. But its absolutely alright
if your kid hunts for singing, writing or acting rather than going for doctors
or engineers. What if all of those kids become doctor and there is no one for
journalism or in the singing industry? No way to deny that medical is a noble
sector but in the greater aspect of the society we need some entertainment too,
don’t we?
Be frank
with your son. Express what you want him to be and ask what he wants to do. If
both matches than yeah go for it. Otherwise give him priority. Never impose
ever again your thoughts on your child. Don’t push your baby to do something
that will be burden for him in the entire life.
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