Men's beauty is money, women's beauty is skin.
Most of the women and men in the society run towards these two. Men prove that they are men by earning money, women prove that they are attractive women by rubbing their skin.
Girls are engaged in beauty fights with thousands of girls outside so they want attention from the one they love. The boys are busy fighting for power and earning money with thousands of boys outside so they want caring for the one they love.
Attention and caring are not the same. Attention is recognition, caring is shelter. One wants, the other gives. It's a connection.
This hidden communication keeps the relationship between the two people right. Most of the talk outside is about applying ointment.
It's weird to hear that though. Because the common belief is that - boys want attention, girls want shelter. But the reality is actually different.
Whoever has to fight with thousands of people for recognition, then he forgets the failure to get recognition from his relatives at home.
Again when he has to compete with many for power or money, the tired mind wants a piece of peace somewhere where he can get himself out of this competition and stay well. Then his mate's piece of shelter kept him alive.
The conventional thinking of the society confuses the issues. Where it is needed, it fills the relationship with garbage without meeting the direction. The consequences are nothing more - at the end of the day most people are left alone.
Every man is alone in himself. He is the loneliest of all around. Because, what he wants, he doesn’t actually want; He doesn't want what he gets at all.
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